A few years ago, I adopted a beautiful and loving soul. She was a golden retriever and her name was Goldie.  She wasn't quite a giant at nearly sixty-five pounds, but somewhere in between. Her heart, however, was enormous.  Goldie was one of the sweetest dogs I was fortunate enough to adopt!  It was May 31st, 2015. When I met Goldie, she was a happy, go-lucky pup at about eight years old. She was playful, funny, and barked only when she wanted to get attention.  Within a few months, I had noticed one of her eyes had become cloudy, but she could see fine. Having lived with goldens for quite some time, I initially thought of allergies or something that could easily be remedied. When eye drops didn't do the trick and Benadryl didn't help at all, I sought help from the veterinarian. He assured me that some dogs have what's called 'Cloudy eye' resulting from antibiotics given at birth. He had told me "not to worry" and sent us on our way. Another week passed, and my instinct told me something wasn't right. I then took Goldie to another doctor, who looked at me sympathetically—a much different reaction than the first doctor! She then explained that her initial thought was glaucoma. "Great!" I exclaimed. "What kind of medications will she need?" Clearly, I had no idea how severe glaucoma was. Before she made any suggestions, she brought out a few instruments to measure the pressure in Goldie's eyes. Again, I was clueless. I started to become a bit anxious and was quickly catching on that medicines might not be able to help. The doctor told me her eye pressure was at 35.  Thirty-five is considered high. It's excruciating and feels like an intense migraine. This pressure causes the eyes not to have sufficient fluid drainage, thus affecting the optic nerve.  We spoke about glaucoma for a long time. She said she was almost sure that Goldie had this and recommended that I see a specialist. With a heavy heart, I learned that with dogs, medication rarely works in the long term, but the doctor sent me home with some medications to use until I could get an appointment with the ophthalmologist. Finally, the day came when I brought Goldie in to meet with the ophthalmologist.  She asked what Goldie's symptoms were, besides the obvious—her cloudy eye. Since symptoms can vary with each dog, she asked if she had any of the following:  excessive blinking, redness, and enlargement of the eyeball. I hadn't noticed Goldie exhibit any signs of pain, but I did notice she squinted occasionally. Her eye had also teared a bit, which is common with allergies as well. I was still holding on to that hope, but it would soon diminish.  After running some tests, the doctor came in and informed me that Goldie had glaucoma. She also had fibrin clots and golden retriever uveitis. I didn't even know there was such a thing! In addition, Goldie was possibly already blind in one eye. While absorbing this grim possibility, I again insisted medications would help. Little did I know. The doctor explained that she'd been doing this for years and it has never helped. Eventually, Goldie would be blind in that one eye, and most likely, her other eye would also be blind. Equally as important, she would be in excruciating pain. +- Her suggestion was to remove at least one eye, if not both. Another word I had never heard: Enucleation. I was quickly learning a new vocabulary and was a lot happier when I was less educated! If you ever have a similar diagnosis from your vet, I'd like to save you the trouble and the expense of medication. I couldn't handle removing Goldie's eyes. So, I went with the path of least resistance and tried the medication for a few months. And, as you may have guessed, the medication worked for a while and then abruptly stopped. It was time to make a decision. Goldie's eye pressures were not normalizing, and it was a clear indication she was in pain. I never want my dogs to feel an ounce of pain, so the only options were, euthanasia or enucleation. Two big words with significant impacts! Goldie was an otherwise healthy and happy dog. The doctor assured me that blind dogs can live long and joyful lives.  I wasn't entirely convinced, but time was of the essence, and I needed to decide. I chose. Goldie's surgery was scheduled, and her eye was to be removed. At that time, she still had vision in her second eye. I didn't know what to expect when I picked Goldie up the next day after surgery. To my more than pleasant surprise, I heard her running up to the reception area, and she greeted me with a big hug and whirling tail wag. I nearly broke down in tears. She seemed even happier than she had previously been.  That confirmed it for me. She had been in pain, and removing her eye alleviated that pain. The months went on, and weekly checkups ensued. Goldie was doing great for a while, and then I noticed what the doctor had predicted. Her other eye was now cloudy, red, and tearing.  I knew surgery was inevitable. Only this time, when Goldie came home, would she be completely blind. As it turned out, I didn't have to wait until her eye was removed for her to be blind.  It happened in mere seconds. One minute she could see, and the next minute I called her for dinner and she couldn't see a thing. I rushed to the eye doctor, who gave her glycerin, temporarily restoring her vision.  This time, I didn't hesitate. I didn't try medications. I made the decision there and then because I couldn't have Goldie in pain. After her second surgery, I thought for sure she wouldn't be running through the doctor's office as with her first, but moments after I arrived, I heard Goldie running to the reception desk to greet me. And again, she gave me a warm and loving hug. But How? That was my question. How did she know exactly where I was if she couldn't see me?  The Truth About Blindness In Dogs A Dog's Sense of Smell A dog's sense of smell is incredible. It is as essential as their eyesight, if not more so! While it is impressive, it also means some life changes for you if you ever have to go through this. It might mean easing off on potpourri or candles. It also means not leaving sneakers in the middle of the room or moving furniture around. Dogs can map out the layout in their minds just by using their beautiful nose! Myths About Blind Dogs Dispelled The Truth About Blindness In Dogs Blind Dogs Can't Play! Not true. The first few months might be a little tricky while they adjust, but they will play again! I had another dog with Goldie, and they were back to normal in no time. Blind Dogs Can't Find the Couch Goldie would have jumped on the couch within the first week. She found it no problem. Of course, she was still recovering, so I didn't let her, but by the time her stitches were removed, she found the couch, jumped up and settled in her favorite spot! Blind Dogs Can't Find the Water Bowl As long as you keep everything where it is, they will find the water bowl and food bowl. Blind Dogs Can't Go for Walks At the time, I had Goldie, I also had Duke and then later, Ginger. Both Duke and Ginger could see fine, but couldn't find their way home if they tried. It was Goldie who knew exactly where the driveway was and led us up to the door!  You Can't Move to Another House with a Blind Dog Not only did I move to another house, but I moved across the country and brought Goldie with me. She was a trooper on the way here, excited to sniff the new scents in each state and did fine with the hotel rooms overnight. Getting them acclimated might take a little longer, but they are quicker than you think! Blind Dogs Can't Swim They can! Goldie had never swam before, but when I moved to Las Vegas, she developed hip dysplasia, and I took her for water therapy. She wore a life preserver and was initially a little nervous, but she was a pro by the second and third time! If you are taking your pup for a swim, I would suggest that they wear a preserver. Accidents happen, and your dog's safety is first and foremost! Having a blind dog doesn't mean life stops. They can thrive. Every dog is different, and neurotic dogs might have more trouble adjusting, but they will adjust.  You Can't Adopt Another Dog if Your Dog Is Blind You certainly can. You just have to make sure they are compatible. It's important to make sure they get along and that the new dog understands their boundaries! I adopted Ginger after moving across the country. Initially, I almost adopted a young pup, but he was very hyper and wasn't a good fit for Goldie. Ginger was calm and even let me know when Goldie needed assistance! I often guided Goldie. For instance, she learned the commands step up and step down. I gave her those commands when walking up curbs, but Goldie could even handle a fourteen-step flight of stairs! She went up and down on her own, but being the worrywart I am, I always stood by…just in case. And if you have a high bed, it might be wise to put a blockade up so they don't fall off.  Dogs are more intelligent than we give them credit for. Your dog will let you know when they need help. It's not always easy, and sometimes you need to intervene to help them. Previous to my experience with Goldie, I didn't think I could adopt a Blind Dog. I simply knew nothing about training or how to help them. Goldie and I helped each other through it. She lived a beautiful life and filled my days with love and joy, peace and understanding. I don't regret one moment with her beautiful soul. I learned that blind dogs can thrive and that there is no reason to be afraid. For that, and so much more, I am forever grateful for her.   I had written a book about Goldie in more detail and tips. If you'd like to read it, please click here to order!

2007 marked a milestone moment with the invention and release of the Amazon Kindle . For book lovers like myself, it was a way to carry our favorite books around wherever we went. We no longer had to worry about bulkiness or the weight of the book.  Since then, Kindle has come a long way, with many different styles, including the Kindle Fire, which mimics many features of a regular computer. Initially, I was excited about this concept, and only after becoming acquainted with the Kindle did I find features that made it even more appealing! While I love holding a regular paperback book in my hands and toggling between reading books on Kindle and a good old paperback, there are many benefits of a Kindle that you can’t find with a regular book! The Benefits of a Kindle Without delving into the benefits of a Kindle Fire , the basic Kindle has features that make reading more enjoyable. A Built-In Dictionary Have you ever read a book with a few words that weren’t currently in your vocabulary? Many will use the sentence structure to determine what they mean. However, some inquiring minds are left with a nagging curiosity to understand the definition in depth. Of course, you can pull out a Webster’s Dictionary or ask Google to give you the answer. However, if you’re immersed in a good story, you might not want to be distracted by dog-earing the page and conducting a search. That’s where Kindle shines. With its built-in dictionary, you can just highlight the word, and voila! You have the definition at your fingertips. You may not realize how often this comes in handy until you frequently use the Kindle and then switch to a paperback book. I usually get a little frustrated when I have to take that break and look up a word! Notes and Highlights I’ll frequently find passages in a book that are like a bouquet of words strung together. Either the story hits home, or the words are poetic. If reading a “how to” or “Self-help” book, I’ll find strategies I want to embellish upon. You only need to highlight those words or paragraphs on a Kindle. Not only can you retrieve them from your Kindle, but you can also have them appear on your Goodreads account to access any time you wish!  You can also take notes if what you’ve read sparked an idea. All you need to do to access these notes is either search for your annotations on the Kindle or log into your Goodreads account and click on Kindle Notes and Highlights!  What a convenient way to record your thoughts! Bookmarks While it is easy enough to place a traditional bookmark in a paperback or hardcover, there are times when you don’t have anything to keep your place. Again, Kindle makes it easy to click on its bookmark icon so that you never lose your place! In addition, if you’ve accidentally closed the book on Kindle or started reading the same book on another device, you can sync to the furthest page read on a Kindle so that you never have to read the same chapter twice!   Font Size Years ago, I had 20/20 vision. I couldn’t understand why others would ask me to make the font bigger after typing up a document at work. Wasn’t font size eight big enough? Now, years later, I’ve entered the world of reading glasses. Font 8 is nothing more than a blur to me. I’ve gone as far as to reformat my previous books so that you don’t need a magnifying glass to read them! Sorry, folks! Now I understand! With Kindle, those problems disappear. With a swipe of a finger, you can enlarge any book to as small or as big as you need! What a relief! No more squinting or turning on every light in the room just to read a page! You can’t do that with a paperback! What you see is what you get! Color Images As an independent author, I know that paperbacks and hardcovers are sometimes printed in color. However, we also have the option to print in black and white to lower printing costs which then enables us to sell our books at a lower price to our readers. Since I’m cognizant of the economy, I try to sell my books at a fair price.  The only downfall is that pictures in black and white don’t come out as vibrant as they do in color. Kindle eliminates this issue, as all photographs are in color! Less Expensive While we’re on the topic of price, most Kindle books are less expensive than paperbacks or hardcovers. This is because there are no printing costs! If you love to read, you can load up your Kindle with more books than you have on your bookshelf for a fraction of the price! (Sometimes, Kindle books are free)! Portability Just as you can take your music library with you on your phone, you can also bring your books with you wherever you go. While the Kindle isn’t free, the app is! You only need to download the app, and your digital library will sync automatically! Have to wait at the doctor’s office? Not to worry, you have something to read! Are you planning a long trip? Why not have your Kindle books handy with the touch of a button? There’s no longer a reason to break your back carrying a suitcase of books! Your entire library can fit inside of your pocket! Updates As an indie author, I spend countless hours editing my books before publishing them. However, suppose you’ve ever written a book or even a lengthy document. In that case, you’ll understand how easy it is to bypass mistakes—sometimes, typing too fast or reading the same sentence multiple times leaves room for error. Or, sometimes, one of my dogs throws a ball on the keyboard, and I miss the illegible words they’ve thoughtfully added! Whatever the case may be, errors happen. If I catch them after publishing my book, I fix and re-upload them. Unfortunately, with paperbacks and hardcovers, older copies won’t get this update unless a new book is purchased. With Kindle, updates are downloaded and synced automatically! (If your app isn’t set to sync, just go to settings, Book updates, and retrieve any listed updates). You’ll always have the latest edition of any Kindle! Reviews If you like to leave reviews, the Kindle has got you covered! At the end of each book, a screen pops up enabling you to leave an instant review on both Amazon and Goodreads! Easy peasy! More Benefits to Kindle Fire! If you find that you enjoy a regular Kindle or Kindle app, the Kindle Fire adds even more delightful features and acts as a mini-computer. With Kindle Fire, you have Internet, Music, Email, Games, Word, Excel, and even Netflix or Prime! For those who live life on the go, you can stay connected easily, for as long as you like! If you're looking for a Kindle, click here to purchase! (Or download the app for free)! 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Having the fortunate experience of sharing my life with canines, I never had to worry too much about which type of collar to use. Most of my dogs had the standard clip collar. When I adopted Henry and Toby, two large and powerful Golden Retrievers, that all changed for me. There are two items I wanted to share with my readers. Please check out my review of the Kurgo Dog Harness/Seatbelt and Martingale Collar. (See Separate post for the Martingale collar). Review of Kurgo Dog Harness-Seatbelt Kurgo Dog Harness-Seatbelt was an item I purchased about eight years ago. I was moving from New York to Las Vegas, and my dog, Goldie, was coming with me. Goldie was a blind dog who loved to travel. She behaved well in the car, but no one can predict what can happen on a road trip! Although I prayed we wouldn't have any accidents along the way, thirty-six hours is a long time on the road. We didn't drive all the way through without stopping and spent each night at a hotel, but I wanted to err on the side of caution. In my years of dog ownership, I hadn't used a seatbelt. I had tried one a long time ago, and it didn't seem to work well, so I gave up on it too soon. In hindsight, I probably should have tested them out sooner, but this was years ago, and as they say, "If I knew then what I know," I would have put my pups in seatbelts. Thankfully, no harm was ever done! As I was planning my road trip, I gave the idea of seatbelts another shot. As most of us do, I searching online for what I thought would be the perfect seatbelt. I hadn't heard of the brand KURGO before, but it seemed to have all the necessary features. So, off to Amazon I went and made the purchase. Now, years later, I have had plenty of time to put this harness to the test. First, let me explain that it is both a seatbelt and a no-pull harness. So, that means your pup can go straight from his car ride to a safe walk. Since I hadn't needed a harness to walk any of my dogs for the past few years, I have to be honest and reveal that I didn't even know this beautiful seatbelt doubled as a harness! To use it, you adjust the tightness level so that it will fit your dog. There is a buckle on the top. The seatbelt comes with a tether that attaches to the seatbelt in your car. There is a strap on the back as well. That is the part that attaches to a tether, which is attached to the seatbelt in your car. Now, here's what I didn't know all these years! There is also a no-pull buckle on the chest area. That is the part that gets attached to your dog's leash. Having the buckle in the front redirects your dog any time they pull in the opposite direction. Not only is the seatbelt great for protecting your pup should an accident arise, but it also keeps them in the car long enough when you stop. Have you ever had a dog try to jump down from the car seat the moment you open the door? That's not a great scenario, especially if you are in the middle of a shopping area or a busy street. Having your pup buckled in prevents them from jumping out long enough for you to attach the leash and gain control. Secondly, when used on a walk, I suggest also having a collar on them. (More on that below). Of course, if your dog is obedient and walks calmly by your side, you probably don't need a collar for any reason other than having a place for their identification! I used it with my dog, Lola, who didn't even need a leash. However, when we went walking on trails, I wanted to be extra careful. But, if your dogs are anything like Henry and Toby, the more collars you have, the better, especially when still in the training stage, which we are. In the beginning, the thought of walking them without a harness was unquestionable. I had made the mistake of walking them side by side, with regular collars and no harness. The result was me falling on the ground and getting dragged about ten feet before my dogs realized I wasn't having much fun! When you use the harness on a walk, the moment your dog begins to lunge forward, pulling on the harness redirects them to look at you and walk in your chosen direction. It gives you more control, especially when your dog sees something interesting! As for durability, what can I say? I have had the same harness for over eight years and bought another one when I adopted these two dogs, as they are different sizes, and I plan to take them both in the car. The first one I bought years ago still looks brand new without any rips or loosening of the hardware. Let's not forget customer service. I had to call them to ask about the Extra-large size for Henry as I had some questions. Their customer service team is one of the best I had the opportunity to speak with! As you might have guessed, I can't speak highly enough about the product. The price is reasonable for the durability, functionality, and customer service. I'm unsure about the quality of other brands, but I don't plan to test them. Kurgo has gained my loyalty. To view or purchase, click here! Also, please see my blog for the Dazzber Martingale collar (blog coming soon) as I use these two items together! Take a look at the video for instructions on how to use the harness. It is a little confusing when you take it out of the box, so hopefully, this video clarifies how to put this on your pup! When you put the harness on your dog, the thicker part goes underneath their chest and the straps go under their chest too, behind their front legs so that you can pull the straps up and fasten it to the top. Note: As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

It's that eye-opening, mind-boggling, hair-raising sensation that causes some to yelp in pain as the sun bursts through the windows and initiates that very first morning step. As one makes an attempt to roll out of bed in the morning, that very first step can be the big one. The painful one that causes the joints to crack, the spine to weaken and the overall range of motion to be limited to moving at the same velocity as a turtle who had few too many gin and tonics. Just like humans, dogs experience Arthritis and Joint Pain. At first, the symptoms might be a little vague as one tries to muddle through them. Their first few steps might be a bit slower. There is a definite stiffness and to an unaware observer, it may appear as though there were two-by-four boards attached to each leg. Bending their joints might seem virtually impossible They may sleep more, favor a limb, have decreased interest in playing, walk like they are on the sharpest of eggshells or a bed of hot coals, become a bit moody or less responsive to play. They may even moan as they get up or whimper as they lay down. You may notice that they seem to limp quite a bit. It can happen at the hip, at the knees, back or even in their toes. Wherever there is a joint, they can be affected by this degenerative condition. Arthritis and Joint Pain in Dogs. Arthritis is a common condition that affects many dogs during the course of their lifetime. It is more evident in the morning after a long sleep or an afternoon nap. While at first they may only seem to struggle, the pain becomes more apparent as the arthritis worsens and doesn't get the proper medication. In time, especially without medical care, it can be the beginnings of a painful journey for your pet. Breeds Though all dogs can develop arthritis, there are some breeds that are prone to suffering from arthritis and it can even begin at an early age. It is not just limited to senior dogs. Some of the breeds that are more susceptible are golden retrievers, boxers, mastiffs, German shepherds, Labrador retrievers and other large breeds. Preventative Measures and Treatment While there might not be a sure-fire way to prevent some dogs from attaining arthritis, hip dysplasia or other forms of degenerative trauma, there are things we can do to help. The first thing is to keep them at an ideal weight. It is up to us to feed them the proper diet, so we have control of what they put into their bodies. It's a good idea to have their weight checked by your veterinarian to make sure they are not overweight or underweight. If your dog loves treats, break up carrots for them, instead of feeding them high calorie dog bones or if you're ambitious and know a healthy recipe, bake them homemade goods! Exercising them from a young age helps to strengthen their muscles and remain strong. If they do develop arthritis, try to discourage them from jumping and performing strenuous and highly taxing activities, but encourage them to walk or even swim if they will oblige. Again, be sure to check with your veterinarian on which brand and dosage he suggests, but glucosamine with Chondroitin and MSM for dogs is an excellent supplement. It is a natural substance that is found in cartilage in dogs (and even humans)! As dogs age, the body's ability to repair wear on tear on their joints and cartilage slows down. Glucosamine helps repair that cartilage and sooths the joints. It may help reduce pain and rarely has side effects. Chondroitin is another natural substance and adds to healing your dog's joints. In addition, MSM improves flexibility and decreases inflammation. The combination of the three does take a month or so to begin working, so patience is definitely key. During that time, if the vet gives their seal of approval, NSAIDS may help alleviate some of your dog's pain. If the arthritis becomes debilitating, your veterinarian can prescribe pain relievers along with NSAIDS to reduce the inflammation. Some dogs respond well to physical therapy and even acupuncture. If you can, gently massage the areas that affect your dog, ensuring that you do not press to hard or inflict more damage. For severe cases, some veterinarians may suggest surgery if they feel it may help more than hinder. In Closing As with humans, arthritis has certain levels of pain from mildly disturbing to excruciating. There's nothing we can do to stop the aging process in any species, so for our pets, the most we can do is try to provide care and wellness, and make them as comfortable as possible. Often it is necessary to let them be the ones to make the choice. Some days will be good, other days perhaps not so much. If they act is if they want to get a little exercise, take them for a slow walk around the block and let them get the blood circulating. Keep in close contact with your veterinarian and abide by what individual suggestions he or she has for your pet. They'll be better able to determine what course of action you should be taking for your dog's needs, as no two dogs are alike, just as no two humans are alike, or share the same pain. Take note that it is NOT suggest to give your pet medication that has been manufactured for humans. Always get the advice of your veterinarian as they have been properly trained in how to provide treatment for animals. Keep in mind there might be some days when your dog doesn't want to walk around and those days his activity might be limited to a brief relief session outside and food and water. If his or her arthritis becomes progressively worse, it may be beneficial to take a trip to the doctor to see if there is anything that can be done to alleviate more of their pain. I must disclose that I am not a doctor, merely a pet owner who has three senior retrievers with arthritis. After all, arthritis and joint Pain in dogs is common as they age. It is suggested that before you start any health care regimen with your pet, that you follow the strict instructions from your veterinarian. This hub is only a guidelines and the result of what has worked with my personal dogs and the advice I have followed over the years. My hope is that this hub has provided you with some questions to ask your veterinarian before you begin treatment. Thanks for reading! ~ Elizabeth Parker "Bringing awareness about dog adoption and rescue, one dog at a time!"

As you read the news and watch television, chances are that you've had your heartstrings pulled by a commercial or two depicting just how many stray dogs are left homeless and dying here in the United States alone. Not to mention similar statistics in other countries. The number of dogs seeking shelter continually increases, while sadly, the vacancy in those shelters decreases by the day. As someone who loves dogs, it's so difficult to witness day in and day out. While it would be great if everyone could open up their hearts and their homes to adopt one or two of those dogs (or cats), the realization is that it's not feasible. Not everyone has the ability to do so, even if they wanted. So what is the next best thing? How can we avoid so many dogs winding up on the streets? What do we have to do so that going forward, every dog will eventually have a home and the population in these shelters stops growing? There is no easy answer and it might take a few generations before it even affects the numbers, but I believe it starts with education. Let's ask ourselves why these animals end up homeless in the first place? For that particular question, there's plenty of answers, yet none of them are acceptable. Spay and Neuter: The first problem that I see is that so many of these animals are not spayed or neutered. If we take one average example and do the math, the answer is evident. Since I'm familiar with the breed, how about a golden retriever? If we choose not to spay and neuter one female and one male and the two decide to go on a romantic date together, it is quite conceivable that in a little over two months that the pitter patter of thirty-two feet will be heard throughout the neighborhood, since the average litter of a golden retriever is six to ten puppies. Now, if those puppies were born to an actual owner, we can hope that after that litter, the owner will spay and neuter the dogs. Unfortunately, this is not a perfect world and sometimes that same golden will become pregnant again and/or so will her female puppies and their female puppies and so on. It's clear to see how quickly eight puppies can become twelve puppies, etc., etc. Sadly, many of those puppies will wind up either on the streets, or worse, killed. I'm not sure that everyone realizes that if a dog ends up in a kill-shelter, they only have a few days at most before they are euthanized. It is awful to think that a completely healthy pup or senior dog is killed because they simply had no home. Altering a pet is not an expensive procedure and there are also clinics that can work on lowering the fee. Such an easy fix for such a big problem, yet many fail to have this procedure done on their dog. I've heard tons of reasons why they chose not to alter their pet, but my all time favorite is that they didn't want their male dog to lose his manhood. I can assure you your dog will truly not care one bit. If you need other reasons to spay or neuter, however, here are a few: In females, spaying a dog reduces the risk of mammary tumors and infections. They will no longer go into heat. In males, the risk for testicular cancer is reduced. Your male will have less tendency toward aggression and will be less likely to roam in search for a female in heat. Spaying and neutering is one simple solution to an ongoing enormous problem. There are many other reasons for these poor animals to become homeless. The first book that I have written, called Finally Home , was a lighthearted spin on my experience with my golden retriever, that in no way, shape or form was a training manual. Buddy was the first dog that I had adopted and due to previous owners and training issues, he was quite a handful. Finally Home was written so that readers will learn two things. For one, that there is no textbook answer that will define the remedy for all dogs no matter how much people want to believe differently. And two, that even if you rescue a dog with a boatload of issues, there still is hope. You just have to work with these issues. The book is a candid glimpse into every mistake that we made and how with each mistake, we learned from it, and it brought us closer to Buddy than ever dreamed possible. When we first committed to such a huge undertaking that three previous owners couldn't handle, we knew we were in for it, but had no idea just how much. And that brings me to my next point. Another reason so many dogs end up on the street is because of their dog's poor behavior. This is a topic I can drone on about for hours and hours. For those who have been blessed with dogs that behave perfectly, it might be difficult to understand what a mischievous dog is like and how they got to that point. Speaking from experience, there are so many reasons. The owner might not have done the research on the breed before buying or adopting. They might not have expected a golden retriever to be playful or a Shih Tzu to bark a lot. In Buddy's case, his previous owners gave him positive reinforcement for bad behaviors. He jumped up, they gave him a treat to get down. He gnawed on the furniture, they gave him a treat to get his mouth off of it. A few years ago, I met a Rottweiler who would greet you with a kiss and then in the next breath, try to rip your hand off. The owner corrected his behavior by talking to him in a soothing voice and saying, "No, Rover, bad boy" while stroking the dog behind the ears and scratching him under his chin. Do you see anything wrong with that training method? I shudder to think of how that Rottweiler is behaving today. But, it happens. And these are the dogs that are surrendered to a shelter or worse, put to sleep because no shelter will take them in. If you've read Finally Home , you will agree that I am not a trainer, or at least I didn't know what I was doing thirteen years ago. However, I will say this. With practice comes knowledge and working with Buddy as much as my husband and I did, we have learned a wealth of knowledge. In essence, Buddy taught me everything I know about training. Because of him, I've done extensive research on training from reading manuals, watching videos, working with a trainer, trial and error, and lastly, asking questions from different people learning varying opinions about training methods. There is no one set rule book that works for all dogs. Each dog is different. Their pasts are different. Their fears are different and their motivations are different. It is not a case of 'one size fits all' and I think this is where some owners feel their frustration, in turn leading to them dropping them off at a shelter or worse, in the middle of an alley somewhere. I'm a big believer that most, if not all, dogs can be trained. Some important lessons I learned from Buddy. My newest golden retrievers are Henry and Toby.  They make my ninth and tenth dogs. Henry and Toby were rescue dogs.  I’m not aware of their previous living conditions, but I believe they were loved and well taken care of. That brings me to the point of this post.  While I don’t have any training certifications, I do consider myself to be well-versed in dog training. Here, I offer you ten tips for effective dog training regardless of their age. 1.     Positive Reinforcement.  I can’t stress enough how well this tiny training tip works.  Dogs are notoriously people-pleasers.  They love praise.  They love any attention.  While occasionally they do need to be scolded if they do something mischievous, singing the words “Good Boy” or “Good girl” go a very long way.  They’d much rather have praise than negative attention.  The best part about positive reinforcement is they don’t have to be doing any circus tricks to receive it.  A simple pat on the head or scratch behind the ears when they are laying down is considered part of the training.  When they do something amazing, a few more words of praise and a yummy treat sends signals to them that they should continue to behave in that manner! 2.    Consistency is a key element.  Whether you live alone, or have many family members, each person needs to be on board with your routine.  If you don’t want your dog begging at the dinner table, then each person needs to follow the same routine.  If there is one person who “gives in” to your dog, your pooch will most likely get confused.  Being consistent is very important. 3.    Patience.   Dogs may not speak our language, but they understand more than we know.  They are in tune with our sighs, stress levels, emotions and body language.  If you show your dog that you are not patient with them, they will pick up on that vibe.  While training, only take it as far as you can.  If you find that your dog or dogs are not obeying, maybe it’s time to take a break and reconvene once you’ve composed yourself.  Training can be tough sometimes, but you always want it to be a positive and fun experience for both you and your dog. 4.    Socialization.  If you adopt a puppy, you have one advantage over adopting an older dog.  Socializing them is easier as there is less risk of them attacking another person or dog.  That being said, socializing is important.  If you do happen to adopt an older dog (something I always tend to do), socializing can be a bit tricky, but it’s not impossible.  Just as dogs can read our body language, we can read theirs.  If their body is loose and writhing and their tail is wagging upon meeting another person or dog, chances are, it will be a good encounter.  If your dog is tense, overly alert, ears stiff and their tail is not moving, you may want to work with a professional to desensitize your dog.  Introducing your dog to another dog often works best when done in a neutral location. Some dogs get protective of their homes, so a park might work better. Sometimes they have had bad experiences in the past that we aren’t aware of.  Pay attention to your dog’s reaction and “listen” to what they are saying. 5.    Clear Communication.  Often, we forget that our dogs are animals and expect them to understand a string of commands.  Dogs are very literal.  If you say Sit down.  They may not know if you want them to sit, or you want them to lie down.  The shorter the command, the better.  If you want them to sit, say SIT.  If you want them to lie down, say DOWN. (Or whichever command you choose to use).  When you do need to scold them, calling their name may not work.  Be direct.  FIDO, Come.  Not come here, get over here or anything that isn’t a command they know.  6.    Learn to Understand their Behavior.  There are many diagrams online that show what a dog’s body language is conveying.  Most of the time, you’ll be able to sense if they are happy, scared, anxious, sick or just not themselves.  Pay attention to them as you get to know them.  This will help you in the long run to determine how they are feeling and what they want.  7.    Exercise and Mental Stimulation.  Dogs are just like humans in the sense that they get bored.  When they get bored, they have to find ways to entertain themselves, which can lead to destruction.  It’s important to carve out time each day to exercise your dog.  This is not only good for their brain, but for their health as well.  Find ways to keep them occupied from walks, to a game of catch, to agility sets.  There are so many dog toys online to choose from.  Be creative. Your dog will appreciate it! 8.    Set Realistic Goals.  If your dog is older or sedentary, you don’t want to try training them to jump hurdles.  If your dog is younger or more hyper, they will need more exercise and stimulation. If you plan to have a training session, exercising them first will help prepare them to pay attention, rather than trying to chase a ball while you’re giving them direction. 9.    Respect and Trust.  Regardless of your dog’s age or background, they’ve either gone straight from their birth mom into your home, or straight from another home into yours.  They don’t know you.  You know that you love animals, but they do not.  They need to get comfortable with you first before they start to listen.  If your relationship starts off with negativity, they may not bond to you.  It’s important to slowly introduce training and expectations.  They will soon see that you are their caregiver and start trusting you more and more with time. 10.   Seek Professional and/or Medical Help.  If you find that you are doing everything possible to train them and they still don’t behave, it may be time to seek assistance.  Sometimes dogs don’t feel well and it reflects in their behavior.  Other times, they might have had a rocky past and have underlying fears that need to be addressed.  Don’t put yourself or your dog at risk if you find this to the case.  There’s nothing wrong with asking for help, especially if it leads to a happier pup in the end! I hope these tips help you in your dog-training journey.  I find that routine and consistency play a major role in successful dog training.  It takes time.  Patience is essential.  When your dog accomplishes a command, praise them like it’s their birthday.  They will remember that and keep on doing it!  If you’ve ever seen a dog who knows their tricks, you may notice, they will sit, lie down, give a high five, roll over and go through the entire routine just to gain your approval.  It doesn’t happen overnight, but it will happen.  Remember, it’s a marathon, not a sprint! “Difficult Doesn’t Mean Impossible!”     Thanks for reading! ~Elizabeth Parker "Bringing awareness about dog adoption and rescue, one dog at a time!" Author of Finally Home, Final Journey, Paw Prints in the Sand, Paw Prints in the Sand: Mission Accomplished, My Dog Does That!, Bark Out Loud, Unwanted Dreams, Phobia, Evil's Door and Faces of Deception. All books are available in Kindle and paperback format on Amazon.com.

What are Phobias? Contrary to what the title might suggest, I'm not a doctor or therapist, but I did write a psychological thriller called, well, you guessed it, Phobia , so I did a lot of research on this disorder.  Most of us know they exist, but never really pay attention to the damage that they can do.  They not only cause the person to be plagued by worry but in some severe cases, prohibit them from leading a fulfilling and productive life.   Phobias are described as intense fears either rational or irrational and can be caused by something substantial or nothing at all.  They are not just a simple fear, but they are so strong that they can cause anxiety attacks if the person suffering even thinks for a moment about conquering that fear.   In many situations, the reason for the fear cannot be fully explained.  For example, if the person is afraid of heights, that same person may have never even been high up where a fear might've developed. They may have no logical reason for being afraid. It's possible that nothing bad has even happened to them regarding heights.  But yet, this is their fear.  More importantly, this is their phobia.   If they are terrified of spiders, they may have never had one crawl within five feet of them, but yet, something about their existence causes them deep emotional pain.   On the other hand, there may very well be a substantial reason for their phobia.  Something in their life might have caused the fear to spiral out of control, thus causing a debilitating phobia.   What are Most People Afraid Of?   Ten of the Most Common Phobias (There are hundreds)!    Arachnophobia: Fear of Spiders. Acrophobia: Fear of heights. Agoraphobia: Fear of crowded places.  Sometimes bad enough that people refuse to leave their home out of fear. Social Phobia: This may prevent people from attending social events or parties. Claustrophobia:  Fear of enclosed spaces, such as closets, tanning booths or airplanes. Mysophobia: More commonly known as germophobia.  People who are afraid of germs. Carcinophobia: Fear of Cancer Necrophobia: Fear of Death Glossophobia: Fear of Speaking in public 10. Astrophobia- Fear of Thunder and Lightning   I can safely say that I know someone (including myself) who has at least one of those phobias if not more. They are not as uncommon as you might think.  While the degree of debilitation varies for each person, the actual fear is the same.  And some can develop with age!   I can say from experience that I am afraid of heights.  Now, I have no problem flying anywhere.  Airplanes don't scare me in the least, unless of course, there's awful turbulence, but it doesn't frighten me enough to keep me off of them.   Walking on the bleachers at a high school, however or up a large escalator, frightens me to the point that my legs will stiffen up and prevent me from climbing higher than the third step. The Wheaton escalator in Washington D.C . stopped me dead in my tracks. I had never seen one so tall (230 Feet) and was utterly terrified!   Hiking up a mountain is a slow process for me, as long as I am the one leading the way, I seem to do better than following a guide.  In all three situations I just described, I couldn't say which one is more irrational.  I should be scared to fly as it is truly the highest point I will ever reach, but it doesn't scare me.  The bleachers are fairly safe.  At most, if I fell, I might break a leg, but yet I refuse to climb them.  Whereas hiking a mountain can send me to my death, but only frightens me if I'm not the one making decisions or declaring when we turn around.   How do these fears start? Where do they develop?  Is it learned behavior that is actually honed and perfected in a negative way? Similar to any habit, if you feed this habit, does it become worse?    I believe that it does.  If a child falls down and you rush to his or her aid, cooing over them, hugging them tight and making a big deal of it, what happens?    Normally, they start to cry.  If you quietly make sure they are okay, brush them off and continue like nothing was wrong, typically they smile (unless they are really hurt) and continue what they were doing.    I'd have to venture a guess and say that same rule applies to phobias.  If you feed your fear, it continues to grow. I used the heights example above, but I also fear bugs.  When I was a child, I admit was a little Tom boy.  I liked playing with frogs, making little outfits for them (that they never wore), I liked turtles and most of all I liked worms.  Yes, worms.  Caterpillars, inch worms, earthworms- you name it.  I built them little houses using old cool whip containers filled with dirt.  I included nuts and bolts as their tables and chairs and then lifted up the worms, put them in there and watched them crawl out. (Yes, I had a vivid imagination). Don't worry, they were always safe, except when I accidentally sat on one, but that's another story.   Now, as an adult, I hate bugs.  Detest them.  The thought of picking up a worm sends chills down my spine.  Nothing bad ever happened to me where bugs were involved, but I wouldn't touch one if you paid me.  Learned response? I think so.   So, What is the Cure for Phobias?   There are many different techniques to try to cure this, most involving counseling and step-by-step programs.  If you remember the movie, " What About Bob? " Richard Dreyfus preaches Baby Steps to Bill Murray .  While it was a comedy, that is one way to try to cure it! Sometimes it is necessary to seek professional help, but there are ways to try to combat phobias on your own. Start Small. Try to overcome one aspect of your phobia at a time. If you're afraid of spiders, perhaps read up on them and try to find the positive things about them. Get to the root of why you are scared. Breathe. This sounds like common sense, but breathing slowly will send signals to the brain that you are calm. Take a friend. If you are afraid of heights, ask a friend to be with you climb a small stairway, mountain, or even a hill. Go a little higher each time, but don't force it. Take it slow! Research. Find information about whatever you are afraid of. If you're afraid to fly, research all the reasons why flying is considered safe. Positive Reinforcement. I preach about this for dog training, but we deserve affirmations too. Give yourself a reward whenever you conquer even a small feat! Timing. Allow yourself fifteen minutes of negative thinking. Then, tell yourself the rest of the day is only for positive thoughts. Exercise. Exercise is known to reduce anxiety. Tire yourself out and then conquer a small part of your fear. (Again, I use this technique with dog training, why not use it for us too)! Imagination. Spend a few minutes each day imagining that you are over your fear. Soon, your mind might believe you! Seek help if the fear is too strong to overcome. Specialists have techniques to help you overcome your phobias. They can also prescribe medications that may help, as well!   Should You Reveal Your Phobias to Strangers? Well, if you are Matt Brewer in my book, Phobia , you definitely shouldn't.  But in a normal world, with sane people, I don't think there's any harm in that.   Do you have any phobias mentioned above?  How do you deal with them? View the trailer for Phobia, below   Note: As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Let's Have Some Fun! The Forecast calls for: Puppy Showers and Dog Showers! Years ago, an expectant mother could also expect to have a baby shower for her firstborn. As is tradition, a baby shower is complete with a guestlist of family of friends who gather at a home or restaurant. While they are nibbling on food, there are usually baby-themed games, such as baby bingo and the five-second rule game, where you have five seconds to guess answers in a baby-related category. After that, the mom-to-be sits and opens the gifts and cake is served.  Well, things sure have changed. Expectant mothers still have baby showers, but the forecast now sprinkles a new type of shower: Puppy showers and Dog Showers! More emphasis is placed on dog ownership these days, and there is more reason to celebrate in the process.  Puppy Showers and Dog showers are becoming increasingly popular and follow a similar theme for someone who is in the process of adopting or has recently adopted a new furry baby into their home! Unfortunately, most restaurants won’t allow a room filled with dogs, so these showers are usually held at someone’s home, preferably with a large yard. This is especially helpful if a lot of furry guests will be attending! As you might have guessed, a puppy shower is complete with all the traditional themes but with a little twist. The invitations should be dog-themed. It’s fun to get creative! Be festive and hang a banner in the front yard with a picture of a dog, saying, “It’s a Boy!” or “It’s a Girl!” There are puppy games for the attendees as well as puppy games for the “humans”! Instead of guessing how many jelly beans are in a jar, guess how many milk bones are in a cookie jar! Typical baby showers sometimes have a wishing well for extra gifts such as diapers or small toys. Why not create a similar wishing well in the shape of a toy box? Think outside the box for what to use as a table centerpiece:  A statue of a dog or a dog bowl filled with treats are just some ideas. When it’s time for the dessert, why not shape the cake like a dog bone or paw print? (Just make sure that the pups only get treats meant for dogs, and your human guests would most likely prefer treats meant for humans)! For gift ideas, think of what the guest of honor might need. Select anything from treats, collars, personalized leashes, toys, training books and/or clickers, dog beds, pooper scoopers and more. I bought my dogs a martingale collar. They are great for training! The mom-to-be can even create a gift registry to help guests decide what to bring. Since I write many dog-related books, I have also created baby books catered explicitly to dogs (and a separate one for kitties ). In addition, I made a Pet Medical Journal , which would be a great tool to keep a record of the new pup’s veterinary visits and expenses. Don't forget decorations- party streamers. There are even string lights shaped as paw prints! (Just be sure to make sure your canine guests can't ingest any of your decor)! No shower would be complete without gift favors for the guests. It’s fun to create something dog-related, such as a human treat shaped like a bone, a dog keychain, paw print shaped soaps, dog magnets, or bracelets with dog charms. You can find gift bags or boxes with dogs or paw prints on them on Amazon! Of course, one must ensure their new puppy is comfortable around many people. In addition, the furry guests all have to get along. If that’s not possible, no steadfast rule says the pups need to attend! After all, this is a party for the Mom (or Dad), so it’s OK to invite only humans! The important thing is to have fun with it! Have a pawtastic time! Note: As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Memorial Day A day when we remember and give thanks to those who have passed away while serving our country.     On this day many of us have off and celebrate by getting together with family and friends for a day of barbecuing.    It's also a day when we need to take extra precautions with our pets.  In many areas, May is a time of year when it is going to be hot and/or humid outside.  If you are including your pets in your celebration, it's a good idea to keep an eye on them, especially with all of the excitement taking place.   Dogs can get overheated and even develop heat stroke.  Make sure your pups have cold, fresh water at all times and if it is too hot for you outside, make sure that your pups go inside.  It's natural for them to be by your side for the day, but if it is simply too hot, do what's best for them and keep them indoors.   Often, there are fireworks around this time of year and the thunderous noises can be terrifying for our four-legged pals.  It's quite common for dogs to run away due to the inability to escape these sounds.  If you find your dog is uncomfortable, bring them inside and try to mask the noises.  Televisions and radios provide some relief, as well as noise machines.  You can buy these at Target or Walmart, and there are even some free apps you can put on your smartphone.  If you set it to White Noise, which sounds like static, it provides a soothing sound to your dog and helps soften the bursts of the fireworks.   If your dog absolutely must join in on the festivities, it might be smart to tell your guests (who may not be dog lovers) what dogs can and can't eat.  You don't want a pile of fried onions falling to the ground only to have Fido rush over and eat them.  They are toxic to dogs and can send them to the emergency room, if not worse.   Other toxic foods are garlic avocados, grapes, raisins, alcohol, bones from meats and fish,  and more.  If you are uncertain if your dog can eat it, then it's a good idea to refrain from giving it to them.   In addition, be careful of anything-kabob!  A few years back a beautiful puppy Bernese mountain dog was recovering from surgery because one of the kabobs fell on the floor and she was right there, willing, ready and able to wolf down the entire kabob, metal and all.  Dogs don't take the time to strip the meat and veggies off of there, they just want the entire thing.  That could've turned out a lot worse.  The pup could've died if it weren't for the veterinarian on call performing emergency surgery.  Spare yourself the heartache and monitor where your dog is.   These same tips to keep your pets safe apply for any big holiday, especially when you have a lot of company and there are too many distractions. Also, during this time of year, so many dogs are killed because owners leave them in the car.  I had one person tell me their dog was only in the car for ten minutes.  (The windows were UP and it was 100 degrees outside)!  That car could heat up to 120 degrees in less than five minutes).  If the owner didn't show up, I was going to have to break the windows because her two pups were already showing signs of stress.  Best to leave the pups home if they are going to need to be left in the car for even a minute.   Have a great Memorial Day and keep your pets safe!

When we think of adopting a dog, we think about the fun things we can do them, the unconditional love, the snuggles, and the extraordinary life ahead with them. They enrich our lives every day and deserve to have a wonderful life as well. All of that is true, and there are many benefits to sharing your home with a dog! But are dogs affordable? Companionship and Love From your Dog Most dogs love people and are happy spending all their time with their families. A dog enhances that warm dynamic, whether your family is large or small. After all, our dogs are happy being in our company, no matter how fun or boring we might be.  Most dogs will happily oblige if you're looking for a walking partner. Have a lonely night watching Netflix? Do not worry; your pup will snuggle next to you, ready to watch whatever show you want. Of course, it wouldn't hurt to put a couple of dog movies on occasionally! If your child has trouble reading, why not let them read to your pup? Dogs are the most incredible listeners, and won't rush them along or criticize their words!  Or, if you are ever having one of those days where the world seems to be against you, you can always count on your pup to show you the love and attention you need. Security While not all dogs are watchdogs, having one in the home is an excellent deterrent against prowlers. No matter how boisterous the bark is, it makes strangers think twice about entering your home. Entertainment Sometimes, we've read all the books we feel like reading or watched every binge-worthy television show. Our friends are all busy, and we don't feel like leaving the house anyway. There is someone ready to keep you company, and, in the process, they may amuse you with their silly antics! I can't count how often I've spent hours watching my dog throw his ball in the air, spin around in circles, or play with their favorite toy. Watching my dogs is often more enjoyable than a show on the Strip! Health Research indicates that petting a dog can lower your heart rate and help lower the stress hormone cortisol. This little activity that gives you and your dog so much joy can also help lower your blood pressure, ease anxiety, boost brain activity, and help you relax! Your pup will reap the benefits, too, because they love getting pet. It releases oxytocin, which is a feel-good hormone! Exercise Have you ever depended on a friend or family member to join you on your morning jog, only to find they have been too busy lately? Life happens, and sometimes we can't always live according to someone else's schedule. Dogs would love to join you if you are looking for ways to get outside and enjoy the fresh air. If they are runners, take them on a jog. If they are a little less active, take them for multiple short daily walks. They'll be enthusiastic about joining you, and it will also help mentally stimulate them. Are Dogs Affordable? Here comes the challenging part. I've heard many people claim they don't like adopting senior dogs, as with age comes health issues. However, there is no guarantee when adopting a puppy either. Unfortunately, some puppies can have hidden illnesses since birth. Before adopting any dog, there are many things to consider. One of those things are finances. We know the basics: food, water, treats, and toys. But you may be reaching for that credit card more often with some dogs. Training Devices For Your Dog: Often, we don't know their true colors when adopting a dog, whether a puppy or full-grown, until a few weeks or months later. While initially, they may seem well-mannered, they can certainly have some tricks up their sleeves! If training is easy, you are off the hook, but training equipment can add up! You may need a clicker, wee-wee pads, a harness, a special collar or leash, a seatbelt, a whistle, baby gates, pens, crates, a ramp, or stairs to get into the car, and let's not forget training treats! While these items may not cost much individually, by the time you have purchased some or all of them, they add up to a pretty penny. For more challenging dogs, you may need training classes, which can rise upward of one thousand dollars depending on your needs. Grooming All dogs need a bath and their nails clipped once in a while. In addition, they need their ears cleaned. Whether you choose to do this on your own, or enlist the care of a professional groomer, it will still cost money. Buying your own supplies is less expensive than a groomer, but will your dog sit still while you clip their nails? Sometimes, you may need outside help! Medical Bills For Your Dog For any dog, after their initial vaccinations, spay, and neuter, you'll need to go to the vet once a year, at the very least, for a wellness check and annual vaccinations. Suppose your dog is diabetic or has any other ailment requiring regular medication. Not only do your bills increase for the medicine, but chances are your vet visits may be more frequent, as many illnesses require more check-ups to ensure their meds are working for them. The vet will also need to monitor them to see if any adjustments are required. In addition, occasionally, your dog might need X-rays if they've injured themselves or are not behaving as they usually do. Blood tests, ultrasounds, and anesthesia are also common. Pet Insurance Pet insurance is helpful for these extra visits, but there are guidelines to follow, similar to insurance for humans. Similar to human insurance, pet insurance can get pricey, especially for multiple pets. There are monthly premiums, co-pays, and co-insurance. Prescription Dog Food Along that vein, some dogs require prescription foods and treats, which are almost double the cost of regular dog food. As they age, they may also need supplements for arthritis and other issues that go hand-in-hand with elderly dogs. I have two large dogs who eat much more than a smaller dog. They are relatively healthy but very active. This means more injuries. During the first month after I adopted them, my largest dog at 118 pounds injured his cruciate ligament and could barely walk. I haven't even had a chance to apply for health insurance yet! That was definitely expensive and unexpected! Sometimes, these things happen when we least expect them and have to find a way to find the financial means to take care of our furry friends! Surgeries aside, one healthy dog can cost at least five thousand dollars annually! Throw some injuries or illnesses into the ring, and that number can skyrocket. Dogs provide us with so much joy and are worth every penny. However, it's essential to make sure we have the financial means and free time to give them proper care and attention.

Whether you're a first-time dog owner or a seasoned expert on dog ownership, there are many items you will need to make your new pup comfortable in their home! In addition, you may have heard of dog baby showers. I'll write more about that in another blog and incorporate some pawtastic ideas for how to decorate your pup's baby shower and/or what to bring to the shower as a guest. Just as humans have different personalities, dogs do too. Some of these items might not be necessary, but as you venture along life's journey with your pup, you'll discover which ones work best for your household. For example, you'll notice I've listed wee wee pads and a crate. I've written a separate post on crate training, which you can find below this blog. With all my dogs, only three out of fifteen used a crate and none used wee wee pads. That might sound amazing, but here is a full disclosure: I only had one puppy, but the rest were older when I adopted them.  If the dog doesn't mind going into a crate, I'm one hundred percent for crate training. If they are terrified of crates, then there are other options available. Some of these are self-explanatory, so you won't see details next to them. On others, I'll elaborate a bit! Here are 30 Essential Items for Dog Owners!   1.       Dog bowl for each dog you own .   If you have one dog, then it goes without saying that they need a dog bowl. If you have more than one pet, designating a specific location for each dog to eat their meals helps greatly in the long run. In all the years I've lived with dogs, I've mostly had at least two. Training them to know exactly which spot is theirs made mealtime much simpler. I found a feeder on Etsy that had three spots for bowls, so put one food bowl to the left, water bowl in the middle and another food bowl to the right. There were never any arguments over food.   2.      Water bowl, always filled! Dogs get thirsty! Can you recall a time when you were parched, dying for a bottle of water, but had to wait? Now imagine you couldn't get that water. That's how our pups feel. It's important to ensure they have clean, fresh water at all times. (*Note, puppies may follow a different rule depending on your sleep schedule. When I raised my pup, the vet suggested removing their water a few hours before bedtime. The same holds true for dogs undergoing surgery, depending on your veterinarian's instructions).    3.     Low Calorie Nutritious Dog Treats As a dog owner, I feel that I am constantly training, even if our dogs are well-mannered. Many, if not all, dogs love praise and treats. This can be a problem if the treats contain fat and calories. While it's OK to have those yummy treats on hand. as well to give occasionally, I find for dogs who love rewards constantly, low calorie is the way to go. (*Note, this includes carrots or non-toxic fruits and vegetables)!   4.    Nutritious Dog Food While this item needs no explanation, it's crucial to give our pets nutritious foods that have the vitamins they need. Some are more expensive than others, but your vet can suggest a food that caters to your dog's specific needs. Some dogs may even need prescription varieties for underlying health issues. It's always a good idea to determine which brand and blend your dog requires.   5.    Bedding If you're like me or like many dog owners, your dog may sleep in the bed with you. However, there are times they want to be independent, and even if they are allowed on the couch, they often want something to call their own. Having a comfortable bed for them to claim is helpful for those moments when your dog is looking for some private space.   6.     Crate I have written an entire blog on crate training, so please see link below this blog to read in more detail. I will sum it up by saying that crates are excellent for dogs who like them. They help with housebreaking your pup, and some even use the crate as their bedroom when they are looking for a little nap during the day!   7.    Wee Wee pads These moisture absorbing pads aren't just for puppies. As dogs get older, some can become incontinent and have multiple accidents in the home. Having these available for your pup makes cleaning up after them a little easier.   8.    Dog Brush Dogs get messy! While most shed, brushing them not only removes some of the hair, but it also helps their lymphatic system! In addition, it gives you bonding time with your pet.   9.    Dog Nail Trimmer If your dog allows you to trim their nails, this tool comes in handy. They have different types from a traditional dog nail clipper to a nail grinder.   10.  Dog Thermometer I had never thought of having a thermometer until one of my dogs was reacting to chemotherapy. How I wish I did.   I didn't know he had a very high fever. Having a thermometer in-house is great for times when you're not sure if your dog is in immediate need of an animal hospital. They now make them so you can take the temperature in their ear rather than the traditional way.    11. Spray bottle This little device has kept more than one of my pups happy, especially when Las Vegas temperatures reach 115! Sometimes, they just need a little help cooling off and spritzing them with some water now and then helps cool them down just enough to be comfortable.   12. Dog Shampoo/Conditioner While many dogs love having a spa day either at a groomer or mobile groomer, there will still be moments when you’ll need to give them a bath at home. Did you ever have a dog who loved to splash around in mud? I have and can tell you that there was no way I would wait until a grooming appointment was available! Sometimes, we have to bathe our pups ourselves, so might as well be prepared!    13. Dog Toys Since I’ve been living with golden retrievers for the past twenty-four years, I can’t imagine how much I’ve spent on toys! However, many dogs get bored and need something to keep them busy. Years ago, you could only find a select few toys at the supermarket or pet shop, but today there are so many from which to choose. If your dog isn’t destructive, you can even buy stuffed animals from the dollar store. Unfortunately for me, my dogs shred those within seconds, so my “go to” brand is Kong. 14.  Toy Chest If your pup only has one favorite toy, this might not be necessary. However, for dogs like mine, who need a variety of treasures, having a toy chest is a must!   15.  Nylabones Years ago, I used to buy rawhide bones for my dogs.  This was before I heard all of the horror stories about the ingredients that goes into them, including glue!  Since then, I’ve switched to Nylabones. I buy the indestructible ones which allow my dog to chew, but not ingest the pieces of it.  These have been a blessing and have given me a few minutes to myself, even though I might be spending some of those minutes writing this blog!   16. Dog Enrichment Puzzles If you have a dog or dogs who need a lot of mental stimulation, these puzzles can keep your dog occupied for a very long time.   There are a variety of these on Amazon.   17. To Go Bag As I’m writing this, I realize I’ve had many different types of situations with all of my pups.  One of them was having to leave my house at midnight when my air conditioner broke.  It was the HOTTEST day of the summer.  It was then that I realized that having a to go bag for my dog was imperative.  In it, I put the bare essentials:  A collapsible dog bowl for food water, treats, dog food, a toy and any medications they may need.  It might also be beneficial to keep a list handy of what your dog needs should an emergency evacuation like this arise.  This way, you know exactly what to stuff in the to go bag when you have to leave quickly. This has multiple uses as many of us take our dogs on the road with us. Shouldn't they have their own suitcase? 18. Car stairs/ramp If you have a large dog who has trouble getting into the car or SUV, it might be impossible to lift them.  Training them to use stairs or a ramp will help both you and your pup!  I used the stairs for my dog, Lola and this was perfect for her because she didn’t injure herself getting in and out of my car.  It was perfect for me as I didn’t have to lift a sixty-pound dog each time! 19. Dog First Aid Kit It may seem silly, but dogs get injured too!  Some of the items I have in my dog’s first aid kit are: bandages, tape, BENADRYL(super helpful in emergencies, especially if your pup has been stung by an insect), self-adhesive wraps, thermometer, cotton, Neosporin, poop bags, eye dropper, eye drops, and small scissors. 20.  Blink Indoor Camera Technology has made owning a dog a lot easier.  I don’t use this daily, but it was extremely helpful to determine how my dogs reacted when I left the house.  It gave me peace of mind knowing if they were anxious or calm and how to remedy the situation for the next time I went anywhere.  21.  Portable bowls 22. Collar and Leash 23.  Poop Bags! 24.  Spot Cleaner 25. Vinegar This is a great cleaning device when you don’t have any spot cleaner on hand! 26. Dog Seat Belt Not only does this protect the driver and passengers, but it protects your dog from flying through the windshield should an accident occur, or even an abrupt stop! In addition, it safeguards an excited pup when it's time to exit your vehicle, keeping them tethered until you can grab hold of their collar or leash. 27. Dog stretcher Having big dogs is not always easy, especially if they need to go to the emergency room but can't walk. Amazon sells everything from gurneys to stretchers. One hopes they never have to use it but, as they say, it's better to have something and not need it, than to need it and not have it! 28. Tooth Brush and DOG toothpaste I've written a blog on oral hygiene for dogs. Please click on the link below this blog to read up on the Importance of Oral Hygiene!   29. Baby Gate Even the most well-behaved dogs need to be confined sometimes, especially if workers are at the house or if your dog gets overzealous at times. Having one of these on hand is very helpful. I had to use this when my dog had TPLO surgery. It was a life-saver. 30. An Identification Tag Since the invention of the micro-chip, we've been given a certain degree of peace-of-mind. Still, I believe our dogs need to wear ID tags, just in case they decide to venture off on their own. I hope this list of 30 Essential Items for Dog Owners helps you or someone you know! It's also crucial to dog-proof your home. This might not be entirely necessary for some dogs, but it's helpful for those with curious minds.  I found the best way to do this is to get down to a dog’s eye level.  (Yes, I’m serious)!  See the home as they see it and note what possible things can be of interest to them.  One dog I owned tried to chew electrical cords when it thundered.  As you might have guessed, I went around my house hiding each and every cord! I have put the link to a post about Pet safety and comfort in the home at the bottom. See Recent Posts. Dogs enrich our lives with every tail wag, sloppy doggy kiss and cuddles.  They don’t ask for much, but deserve the world. If I’ve missed anything on this list, please feel free to comment! *Please note, As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.

You know the feeling. Your normally playful pup (or senior) hesitates when you call him or her, when they regularly pop right up and come running. At first, you think (hope) that they are just tired from staying up late the night before. You know how those pooch parties can be. But then you realize it is a little more than that. How Do We Know if Our Dog is Sick? How Do We Know if Our Dog is Sick? None of us like to see our beloved canines in pain or feeling sick. It's difficult for the most part, because we can't exactly always know what is ailing them. This leads us to examining every part of them, hoping it's just a pebble stuck in between the pads of the feet. If we're lucky, that's all it is. So, if said pebble doesn't exist, what are we to do? How do we make our dogs comfortable until we can get an appointment at the vet. (Doesn't it always seem to happen on the weekend, when your favorite vet is closed, or worse, at 2 in the morning when you just got into your pajamas the closest emergency vet is miles away)? If you can't get to the vet's office, you have to resort to the next best thing; making your dog as comfortable as possible. Not so easy if you don't know what's wrong, but it's helpful to have a few things on hand for instances like these. For joint/arthritic pain, you may want to have pain relievers prescribed by your vet to hold you over for when this does happen and can't get to the vet's office. Often, rimadyl or tramadol are prescribed for pain and having them BEFORE this happens (along with knowing the correct dosage) can help soothe your dog's aches for at least a little while. You don't want to give them anything of the human variety without knowing if it is safe for dogs. If you don't have medications (specifically for your dog) on hand, the next best thing is to gently massage the area that you think is in pain, and coax your dog into laying down, limiting activity the best you can for the interim. If it is an internal issue such as vomiting or diarrhea, this comes down to a judgment call. All dogs get sick every once in a while and hopefully, it only lasts no more than 24-hours. However, if you see anything abnormal such as bleeding or straining, this may call for an emergency visit ASAP. If you're not sure, your best bet is to call the emergency clinic, describe the situation and let them assist in making that decision. If in doubt, it's always better to be safe than sorry. Another thing to have on hand is a pet thermometer. If you don't feel comfortable using the ones that the vets use, (you know, the uncomfortable one) then, they do sell other types that you can put in the dog's ear or under their armpit. While this may not be as accurate as the one your veterinarian uses, it will give you a good gauge of their temperature. If you see their temp rising past the normal range, it's important you do get your dog to the vet immediately. A rising fever is a good indication that something is wrong with your pet, and you will need a professional to determine the root of the problem. If at any point you think your dog has ingested a poison, or your dog appears lethargic and unresponsive, or his/her heart rate is racing, it is wise to get to your pooch's doctor right away. Aches and pains are one thing, but when they appear as if they are truly sick, let a professional take a look to ease your mind (and your pup's condition)! Elizabeth Parker

A Short Cartoon Version of Peace, Love, Paws Once upon a time in a land far away, there lived two beautiful princesses, named Ginger and Lola.  Princess Ginger loved all toys and played with them day and night.  Princess Lola loved her one cherished possession...tennis balls.  These were magical to her and she could find them anywhere.  She didn't have to search long and wherever she went, these magic tennis balls would appear.  Ginger would often hunt for toys, finding them in unique places, such as garage sales or when her owner came home, the toys would magically appear in bags. The two princesses loved each other very much. In time, Princess Ginger had to leave and said that while she would no longer be playing with her toys at her home, she'd be watching from above and have all of the toys that she wanted. This made Princess Lola very sad, but her Mommy told her Princess Ginger would be with them all of the time.  "We just won't be able to see her, but she'll still be here and in our hearts."   To make Princess Lola happy, her mom took her everywhere and everywhere they went, Princess Lola found more magical balls. This made Lola very happy. Princess Lola got to visit many places and learned how to hike and play at the playground.  She loved seeing children there and greeted them whenever she could.  Often, people would come over to say hello to her and she would bless them with her pretty smile and befriend them immediately. After a while, Princess Lola mentioned that she missed Princess Ginger very much and wanted to see her again.  She also wanted to become an angel like Princess Ginger and spread kindness throughout the world. While this made her mommy very sad, her mom had no choice but to let her follow her chosen path.   She knew that Princess Ginger would greet her with open paws and they would continue to have fun together. Knowing that her mommy would be sad, Princess Lola did one last thing before she left.  She collected all of the magic tennis balls she could find, and then sent her mommy two young princes who needed a palace to call their own.  They, too, loved tennis balls and played with them all day long.  Princess Ginger sent some toys for them, as well, knowing they'd love them just as much as she did. Prince Toby loved to play all day.  He enjoyed the magic balls that squeaked. Prince Henry loved to play as well, but preferred quieter toys to run around with.  Both were thankful for the generosity of Princess Ginger and Princess Lola and kept their mommy very happy. The End I hope you enjoyed this short, cartoon version of Peace, Love, Paws. To order the Adult version of Peace, Love, Paws... Click Here!  Labels: Dog books, books for dog lovers, book lovers, loss of a dog, coping with dog grief, books about dogs